It is so last minute but here I am rushing to write a blog for Valentines Day. I want to write something inspirational but to be honest I forgot all about Valentines Day. It is now 3:30 pm the day before valentines. My editing team is busy with other work.
Who is going to edit this?
It might seem like I procrastinated or that I am disorganized but the truth is a bit deeper than all that.
I forgot because I no longer feel the need for valentines day this year. I do not feel lonely, I am not looking for a relationship and my kids and family all know I love them. I love you too.
You readers give me so much positive feed back and I receive so much love from the life I have created that I am not looking for the attention, recognition, or the intimacy from someone special. I feel full already.
I realize that not everyone feels this way. Some of us feel like we would love to share this special day with someone special. We imagine how nice it would feel to receive a sweet gift of flowers /chocolate/ engagement ring... There is nothing wrong with romance at all.
In fact celebrating love is wonderful!
Some of you this holiday might be feeling heart broken while others are just feeling lonely. I totally get it. I have been there. In fact I have heard it said that we teach what we most had to learn. That is why I created the on line courses. The Heart Break Process and the Power of Being Single. These were 3 lessons I had to learn and I learned them the hard way. Overcoming an addiction on Hollywood Reality TV.
Dating addiction, failed relationships, and many lonely nights trying to fill the hole with food, sex, seeking outside validation ... led to nowhere good. It was not until I started to face my feelings of sadness, loneliness, and got brutally honest with myself that I was able to start the path towards Sexy Brilliant.
You can read about that in my book Too Fat, Too Loud, Too Ambitious.
This Valentines day me and the entire team Devina Kaur want to say:
“WE LOVE YOU!”
“WE CELEBRATE YOU!”
“YOU ARE SEXY BRILLIANT!”
Celebrate Valentines day in that way that feels healthy and wonderful to you.
You deserve to love you!
Much love always,
@TheDevinaKaur and Team Devina Kaur
